The Mulligan Is Not Cheating. It is a Philosophy!
- Tony Golden
- 4 hours ago
- 3 min read

Let us get one thing straight right out of the gate. The mulligan is not a sign of weakness. It is not a character flaw. It is not something you need to apologize for, whisper about, or hide from your playing partners like a lost ball in the rough.
The mulligan is a philosophy. And if you play public golf the way it was meant to be played, you already know this.
Here is where the mulligan gets a bad reputation. Somewhere along the way the golf establishment decided that every shot had to count. That perfection was the standard. That anything less than strict adherence to the rules was somehow a moral failure. These are the same people who wear collared shirts they ironed the night before and complain about pace of play while standing over a four foot putt for eight seconds.
With respect — that is not our game.
Our game is different. Our game is the Saturday morning tee time with three of your best friends. Our game is music in the cart and a cold one at the turn. Our game is the drive that felt absolutely perfect leaving the club and then found a zip code you were not expecting. Our game is the second ball dropped quietly, addressed with renewed confidence, and absolutely striped down the middle while your playing partners pretend not to notice.
That is the mulligan. And it is beautiful.
But here is what nobody talks about. The mulligan is not just about the golf shot. It is about what the golf shot represents.
Think about what you are actually doing when you take a mulligan. You are acknowledging that the first attempt did not go the way you wanted. You are choosing not to let that define the rest of the hole. You are picking yourself up, resetting your mind, and going again with the same confidence you had before everything went sideways.
If that sounds familiar outside of golf it should. Because that is exactly what resilience looks like in real life too.
The best people you know are mulligan people. They take the bad shot, shake it off, and step back up to the tee. They do not spiral. They do not quit. They do not spend the next three holes mentally replaying what went wrong. They grip it again and go.
That is the kind of golfer GRIPIT Golf Society was built for. Not the one chasing perfection on every hole. The one chasing joy on every round.
Now let us talk about the rules people for a second because they always show up in this conversation. Yes we know what the official rules say. Yes we know the mulligan does not exist in the USGA rulebook. We also know that 97 percent of golfers playing on any given Saturday at any public course in America are not competing in a sanctioned tournament. They are out there because they love the game. They are out there to decompress, connect with friends, compete a little, laugh a lot, and spend a few hours outside doing something they genuinely love.
For those people — and we are those people — the mulligan is not bending the rules. It is understanding what the rules are actually for and making a sensible call about when they apply.
The mulligan also makes you a better golfer. We said what we said. When you take a mulligan you are not escaping the lesson of the first shot. You are getting an immediate opportunity to apply it. You felt the flaw in the swing. Now go fix it in real time. That second shot is practice with stakes and there is nothing more valuable in golf than that.
So here is where we land. The mulligan is not cheating. The mulligan is not weakness. The mulligan is a decision to keep playing with the same energy you started with regardless of what just happened.
It is the belief that the next shot can be better. That the round is not over. That showing up and swinging again is always worth it.
Embrace the mulligan. Not just on the course. Everywhere.
That is the whole point.
GRIPIT GOLF — Smooth Stroke. 3 Mulligans. Est. 2026
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